At first, the grey was almost beautiful.

Soft as morning fog against the window,

pale as smoke curling from a candle

after the flame had gone out.

It lived in small things—

the way his voice hardened around my name,

the silence that followed my laughter,

the slight tightening of his mouth

when someone else noticed my light.

I brushed it away.

Grey, I told myself,

was not black.

So when his words left a metallic taste

at the back of my tongue,

I swallowed.

When his coldness settled across the room

like damp winter air,

I pulled my sweater tighter

and called it a season.

When apologies came thin and colorless,

I painted them silver.

When he turned affection on and off

like a hallway light,

I learned to walk carefully in the dark.

There were so many shades.

Ash grey

when he dismissed what mattered to me.

Storm grey

when I learned to read the weather

in the set of his jaw.

Slate grey

when every disagreement became

something I had done wrong.

Charcoal

when I began choosing my words

before entering a room.

Still, I brushed them away—

one grey after another,

because love had taught my eyes

to soften edges,

and hope kept whispering

that shadows were harmless

if enough light remained.

Until one day

there was no grey left.

No mist.

No silver.

No charcoal edge

I could rename or excuse.

Everything had deepened

into obsidian—

black and polished,

cold beneath my fingertips,

sharp enough to cut

when I finally touched the truth.

And there I stood,

looking at the darkness

I had spent years calling grey,

finally understanding

that black does not arrive all at once.

Sometimes it begins

as the faintest shadow—

and waits for us

to keep brushing it away.

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